Good byes are always hard..!!!

There is always this phase of life I have been facing or most of us have been facing.. Oh wait "EVERY ONE" of us have been facing, are facing & will be till we actually settle down, which i believe is when we actually bid a final bye to all our global links. Well, this thought actually got me thinking why we have to go through so much of emotions during this very similar drama that everyone of us go through in different channels!!!!

You know that you are in love when the hardest thing to do is say good-bye!!

What in life has taken us that hard to say "bye"?!?! It could be a colleague, a friend / family living abroad, missing the everyday meetings ,chit-chat talks, times spent together at good & also tough times, though we know it's not the "One last good bye". Today, with all the social networking sites, multiple mobile applications, calling cards, of course, a huge part of everyone's life making us feel connected, it's definitely not the last time to meet.

Being a very emotional person, it's very hard for me to bid bye to all those sweet hearts who have made my days sweeter every time they have been with me. I actually see a stream of thoughts pouring in when i actually write about it and the feeling that every single person has planted in me. Heart and mind are the reflections of what we actually see and think. What we feel is of course a reflection of whom we are with and how they have made you feel. Awestruck by seeing from where it actually got to originate, it's never easy to bid a bye to all those who made you this person in life.
This is ofcourse the toughest part when we know we are missing those best times ever spent and wishing them take it all far wherever they are and keep all those sweet memories in the most safest lockers, the heart :) :) :) 

There have been plenty of moments that i share and treasure with y'all that  has actually made me stay and feel comfortable in this country. Trust me, when i say, "stay in this country", i literaly mean those word with all those experiences for life time ever since i landed here, being out of home, for the first time ever. It has been an amazing journey all throught out these 2 years. Every single person has been a huge support & i have loved all of those moments shared all treasured :) :) I know this is definitely not a GOOD BYE, the world is really small for us to lose contact.

Especially, to the most special graduates of Spring 2013, all your good work has paid off. It's the time when you get to the next stage of life, new place for some of you, definitely lot of new things to explore, forget not most of you will enter into lovely new relationships. I wish my heartfelt, happiest congratulations and all love :) :) :) 

To be together is a gift, but to be in someone's memories even when miles  apart is a blessing :) :) All of us are so blessed...  :) :)

In the following week, there will be lots of good byes, lots of congratulations, lots of parties,lots of final speeches, lots of wishes from unknown people when they see you with your robes, lots of memories flashing your mind without even letting you recollect those memories completely, enjoy them thoroughly, but end of the day, Please please please make a hard core, hand written copy of your memories of these two years & all that you feel like writing that day, because down the lane, in your forties, when your son/ daughter says their teen/early twenties memories you can read your life and you know you have been through so much that it can't be expressed just in few lines, it is these memories & experience that we would actually recollect & definitely not the grades. I still have my tiny note of diary,"Birthday in Shimla", my 14th year birthday celebration with a small cake in the corner of the page written on my Math workbook :P (ofcourse, inspired from mom)

WISH YOU ALL LOTS MORE HAPPINESS & GOOD HEALTH :) :) :) 
LOVE,
Deeps :)

PS:1: I could not include everything in just one pic to make it a collage. Each one of us have so much to be thought about. Sorry if there is someone missing.
2:I am definitely not a good writer, but it's just all that i wanted to share with my loved ones :) :) :) 

After a year..

Time can create so much of changes in each one of us. This is my second post ever since I came to the United States, to the Dallas, for my Masters.

With a drive of passion and dreams about future and with aspirations of making my parents happier my journey to the land of Opportunities started on August 04, 2011. Phew, it all seemed to have happened just now and I have crossed almost a year in the process of getting used to staying away from home and Mom especially, for the first time.If you are thinking something like, "Yes, sounds just like another story of a young women who left her country for an MS in the USA", Well, it is one such story, but something i have gone through and never would regret the decision in future.

Grad school is always fun(The Tag Line) . Yeah, it is fun with self-cooking, care none about being responsible except for yourself, night out before exams and assignments, crazy hours of study, endorsing the dawn and dusk twice on the same day (considering the fact that you have not slept for two consecutive days !!! ). Self-cooking, of course, one of the disaster and best experiences as we experience the joy of victory when the dishes turn out edible and appreciable at times. New room mates, adjusting to people whom you even hardly know, remembering the days when you fight with siblings for using your room. Weekend games at the social clubs. New pictures and updates on facebook, unusually all of those on your friendlist liking the updates (evidently showing that.. We are watching you baby..!!! ), new friends, part-time jobs ( a toughest phase which taught many facts about life), weekend meet up with friends and seniors.

First few days of excitement about the new, with mixed emotions and opinions about the place which i expected to be as good as my undergrad college, for which i put a pause immediately after the school had started with assignments and projects. Indeed, the best and most unforgettable memories for life time in just 8 months. One moment is just not enough to be stated . Every moment and experience makes you better.

Beaming with happiness and rejections as well. We never realise the worth of something unless we long for it (hope it's not too long ).

Moments of joy and appreciation does happen quite often. In just a span of 10months, new friends, becoming best friends, room mates becoming part of family (skyping with your mom.. even when you are away :) ), celebration of seniors' graduation, exploring new places, making new friends, welcoming your friends for their first year at the grad school and lots more.... I'm not done yet..!!!! Taking it all offline with lots of memories and hopes ...!!!!!

The Hindu : Life & Style / Nxg : A world of difference

Once in a while, something that we do appears very impressive to other when you have just expressed yourself, instead of just trying to be someone in the society...A day when my article was appreciated and encouraged, inspiring me to share more of my writings.

My article in THE HINDU, Nxg

Thanks to Praveen who requested to me to writeShared a thought after a long time.!!!The Hindu : Life & Style / Nxg : A world of difference


Another step of happiness...!!!!

My Day in

Being my first post.... i wanted it to be lil imperfect...n almost like an instant msg..or take in a child's way...amature...:P: ) :)

Well, as i've always wondered why people always keep updating their blogs frequently and even got angry on some friends who at times make me read thier blogs under compulsion. It's a known fact that we always want to keep our memories and start treasuring them some where or with some one. So it is mine today...n i decided to make it hea... :)

This day was one, that made me realise that i was no more a kid, no more an adolescent or no more an undergrad brat (at times though..!!!) who does something and gives an answer "Sorry mom, I'd not continue to be like this", because it's almost the end of those 4 beautiful, nurtured college life that is coming to a terminal where life's changing and the world looks up to me as a woman. It's hardly 90 precious days left for me to be in India before I leave to the U.S for my Masters. There are lotsa things i'd wanna do before i leave, like, take a long self-drive on the ECR, make long trips with friends, shout out as if no tomorrow, spend time with mom, make some exclusive "chennai" shopping which i might miss, viz., chat shops, my special corner with friends at KFC , busy roads of the most fashionable Annanagar (Love the place eva...), my terrace n friends, incomparable chennai kaapii (coffee)...n lots more.

But, these 4 years, i have lived life the way it comes with no fear as i always had lovable and strong friendship that neva' let me down, most supportive parents on earth, brother who's always bugging but with unconditional love (who's been helping me a lot des days), and not to forget all those who wanted to insult, ignore and had really tough times trying to prove that i was wrong at every single event they had, but at vain. I have learnt a lot from such people and found how well i can treat others and have indeed explored a little on this journey.

Well, It's never fun to be on comfort zone always.So, i keep my way ahead of such things and take it easy to be a "Better Human-being".

It's alreay the next "good day" when i finish my first post...and it feels really Happy to have made this day the most memorable one.

I love exploring...looking forward to many challenges and more life in wat eva' i do....With loads of life n enthusiam .