Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Good byes are always hard..!!!

There is always this phase of life I have been facing or most of us have been facing.. Oh wait "EVERY ONE" of us have been facing, are facing & will be till we actually settle down, which i believe is when we actually bid a final bye to all our global links. Well, this thought actually got me thinking why we have to go through so much of emotions during this very similar drama that everyone of us go through in different channels!!!!


You know that you are in love when the hardest thing to do is say good-bye!!
What in life has taken us that hard to say "bye"?!?! It could be a colleague, a friend / family living abroad, missing the everyday meetings ,chit-chat talks, times spent together at good & also tough times, though we know it's not the "One last good bye". Today, with all the social networking sites, multiple mobile applications, calling cards, of course, a huge part of everyone's life making us feel connected, it's definitely not the last time to meet.

Being a very emotional person, it's very hard for me to bid bye to all those sweet hearts who have made my days sweeter every time they have been with me. I actually see a stream of thoughts pouring in when i actually write about it and the feeling that every single person has planted in me. Heart and mind are the reflections of what we actually see and think. What we feel is of course a reflection of whom we are with and how they have made you feel. Awestruck by seeing from where it actually got to originate, it's never easy to bid a bye to all those who made you this person in life.
This is ofcourse the toughest part when we know we are missing those best times ever spent and wishing them take it all far wherever they are and keep all those sweet memories in the most safest lockers, the heart :) :) :) 

There have been plenty of moments that i share and treasure with y'all that  has actually made me stay and feel comfortable in this country. Trust me, when i say, "stay in this country", i literaly mean those word with all those experiences for life time ever since i landed here, being out of home, for the first time ever. It has been an amazing journey all throught out these 2 years. Every single person has been a huge support & i have loved all of those moments shared all treasured :) :) I know this is definitely not a GOOD BYE, the world is really small for us to lose contact.

Especially, to the most special graduates of Spring 2013, all your good work has paid off. It's the time when you get to the next stage of life, new place for some of you, definitely lot of new things to explore, forget not most of you will enter into lovely new relationships. I wish my heartfelt, happiest congratulations and all love :) :) :) 
To be together is a gift, but to be in someone's memories even when miles  apart is a blessing :) :) All of us are so blessed...  :) :)

In the following week, there will be lots of good byes, lots of congratulations, lots of parties,lots of final speeches, lots of wishes from unknown people when they see you with your robes, lots of memories flashing your mind without even letting you recollect those memories completely, enjoy them thoroughly, but end of the day, Please please please make a hard core, hand written copy of your memories of these two years & all that you feel like writing that day, because down the lane, in your forties, when your son/ daughter says their teen/early twenties memories you can read your life and you know you have been through so much that it can't be expressed just in few lines, it is these memories & experience that we would actually recollect & definitely not the grades. I still have my tiny note of diary,"Birthday in Shimla", my 14th year birthday celebration with a small cake in the corner of the page written on my Math workbook :P (ofcourse, inspired from mom)

WISH YOU ALL LOTS MORE HAPPINESS & GOOD HEALTH :) :) :) 
LOVE,
Deeps :)


PS:1: I could not include everything in just one pic to make it a collage. Each one of us have so much to be thought about. Sorry if there is someone missing.
2:I am definitely not a good writer, but it's just all that i wanted to share with my loved ones :) :) :)